Wednesday, September 8, 2021

CHAPTER 195: IMPRESSIONS OF MY LIFE: AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF A RECHERCHE POET CHICO YEARS: PRODICTIVE, RLAXING 2008

  CHAPTER 195. CHiCO YEARS: PRODUCTIVE, RELAXING YEARS  2008

 


Well into four years of working at Chico’s and so far loving my job and the people I work with.  Things have been proving productive for me on the home front as well. I was able to write regularly I had put together two book collections of Essays, all new:  Seriousness and Weeping a Night; Rejoicing a Morning.


There are many reasons for some one's unemployment. Sometimes it is their fault and sometimes it is not. Sometimes it is because of crime, sometimes because of disaster, sometimes just because: the owner retires and closes the restaurant, the product becomes obsolete, the person just quits or the person retires. The reasons for unemployment do not have to be mutually exclusive. Neither do the reasons for suffering.

China has an earthquake--32,477 dead. Myanmar has a cyclone--78,000 dead.

How could God allow this amount of suffering? Isn't God in control, if there is a God?

Well one of those disaster figures is above the weekly average and the other under the weekly average for deaths, which are 54,982 or 2,859,055 deaths a year. Yes, on average a person dies every 11 seconds. You must remember this is the world. Nobody gets out alive.

This is Earth, not Heaven. Heaven is perfect. Earth is not, here everybody gets hurt.


Excerpt from Seriousness, “Seven Suffernigs”


 





A poetry book entitled Just an Old Poet. My photography


volume, Random America.


JUST AN OLD POET


My poems have meters

Rhythms

And frequently have rhymes.


I hope you’ll forgive this

Old poet

Yet learning new times.



 




Lois and I were again able to take a couple trips.  In March we stayed at the Inn on Canal Square in Lewes. It is a decent boutique hotel right on the canal, fairly expense in-season, but we were able to  get a special discount

it was not the in-season, but winter well after after Labor Day  and before memorial day and also because my friend Ronald Tipton  (right at his job) was the long time desk clerk. Even so it was more than we usually paid for a hotel room.



There are not a lot of attractions in downtown Lewes, beyond the ports on the canal, a Swedish Museum called the Zwaanewdael.



Lewes claims to be


the first town in the first state. It began as a trading post and whaling port  for the Dutch in 1631.
 It was named Zwaanendael, or Swan  Valley and in 1632 the indigenous local tribe of Lenape wiped out all 32 of the settlers . Until the city of Amsterdam granted the parcel of land to Mennonites in 1662.



Otherwise, you basically wander about exploring the town, which is what Lois and I did. The photo I took of  Lois was near the museum site.


Besides this you


spent a lot of time eating, not that there was a ton of eateries still open during the winter season. The photo above and Ronald, Lois and I ws taken by our waiter in the Buttery, on of the more expensive restaurants there. (This photo was taken a year later on another visit.) 



We also ate at the Irish Eyes on this and several visits to 
Lewes.  Ronald wasn’t overly pleased with Irish Eyes because they had live entertainment, and he found the constant singing of Irish music very

distracting, while Lois and I rather enjoyed it.

 






Even Ron had to admit the meals were tasty and filling.


 



We did return home


in time to go to the three day Couples Ministry at our  church, which at that time was Bible Baptist,  a mile from our home. It would go through a couple name changes over the net decade or so, from Bible Baptist to Northlife Community Church to Iron Faith Fellowship. I will spin the yard about this church in a later posting.


 


On June 23 we were off again heading for Asheville, N.C.  You see in high school Lois had to do a report of an author.  We had such reports at Owen J. And I was always picking someone because I though their book was on the Supernatural.  For instance, I choose Arnold Bennett, because of his book Buried Alive (1908) Sounded like a horror story to me, but it wasn’t. 



I choose Nathaniel Hawthorne for the same reason, basing
my judgment on his House of Seven  Gable.  The call it a Gothic Novel,  with supernatural and witchcraft, but I mainly found long winded descriptions of drawing rooms.



I probably would have preferred the author that Lois had, but was somewhat overwhelmed with the length of his works. This was Thomas Wolfe. It is interesting that Wolfe was one of the wonderland of Editor Maxwell Perkins who edited, F. Scott Fitzgerald and Ernest Hemingway among others. Hemingway befriended Fitzgerald, at least for a while, but was completely put off

by Wolfe. This was partly because of height. Hemingway at six foot  (He was the same size as me.)
had grown use to being the tallest guy in the room, and took dislikes to anyone taller.  Wolfe was 6 foot 6. 



Anyway, Lois developed a strong desire to visit Wolfe’s hometown of Asheville, so that June we were on our way south. We did pay a visit to Wolfe’s yellow house, now a museum dedicated to the author.


Again I decided I did not want to make long  drives anymore at my age, even though one can reach North Carolina in a day from our place.  Thus we drove a bit out of the way, to avoid the  Washington DC beltway, and headed to Harpers Ferry to assist John Brown, no relative in his abolitionist movement…oh wait, John Brown (left. Young and old) was hung for treason on

December 2, 1859; he was the first to so be hung for this accusation in the United States.  Since John ain’t around no more, I guess we’ll do lunch. There goes  Lois asking away from my camera at Harper’s Ferry.


We actually made this little side trip to have lunch at an


Irish Pub I had read about located near Harper’s Ferry. This was Irish Isle in Middletown, Virginia, just over the  West Virginia line. 



I don’t know what to say about it. Lois and I like Irish Pubs and this was a good one. That was our table there on  the right by the wall when we ‘ad  bite there. Unfortunately it no longer is in business.  There is a new pub in

Middletown upon that sight called Nana’s Irish Pub, and we have never been to it so can’t say much about it.  The Irish Isle was very good and served traditional Irish fare, I can say that. 



We then stayed in Roanoke overnight at the Fairview.  We had dinner down the highway from the hotel at a restaurant called the Coach and Four.  


They were listed as a


three $ restaurant, but you only live once. Even though their menu cover didn’t feature anything I liked.

This is what I believe I got. 


French Onion Soup Au-gratin ‘en Crock (4.95), Greek Salad (6.95), Veal Pamigiana (13.95) [I was sort of eating my way across Europe].



I could eat more in those  days and I am sure I has desert as well.








 

We were up bright and early and heading down the
highway toward Asheville, although we stopped for lunch in Boone.





I had planned to go up Grandfather Mountain, which overlooked the town, but it rained all day. So instead we ducked into a  place called Melanie’s Food Fantasy to eat (seems like all we do is eat, doesn’t it). 


There were a number of people eating at tables outside, but Lo and I do not really enjoy outside dining, so we headed inside, where we, along with the Southern hospitality and charm of the art staff, go to chose our table.  A couple moments later a furious thunderstorm started and all those outside diners came hustling inside. Soon every table was filled.  Even being lunch they served omelets and that was what I had, a bacon and cheese omelet  that came with home fries and toast.


I drove up the road for Grandfather Mountain, a winding,
twisting thing now slick with rain. Because off the storm, the mountain itself was closed, so I just keep going around it on some back country road. 



It seemed we were driving forever. The driving raid suddenly turned to noisy hail pinging off the car. Naturally we got lost in the mess since we off my AAA. Maps. With the weather we couldn’t even  enjoy the views.


Despite this, we some how found our way to our Asheville
Hotel, the Biltmore Residence Inn by Marriott which set up a ridge at the beginning of the city. In this photo, the windows 
on the upper floor right were our room. I had a good view of the hotel parking lot, so could keep a watch over or car.



The site had everything, including a full kitchen. And these towels and washcloths shaped like white swans.

 



If we had stocked up
on food, we could have made our meals right in our suite, but we were there to work, so the first night we drove back up the highway and had a really good time eating at a Texas Roadhouse we had passed earlier.



We made the rounds of the highlights of Asheville, beginning with the Biltmore Estate. Biltmore was build as and country estate  by George Washington Vanderbilt II (left) in 1888. The Vanderbilts were a prominent and wealthy family. Besides being an art collector, George II shared in the steamboats, railroads and other businesses of his family.

The Biltmore estate was the latest privately owned home in the United States. He died from appendix complications in  1914. He did not die on the Titanic as some people came to believe. He had booked on that voyage, but cancelled because his wife had a premonition.



When we drove up to the ticket office of the Biltmore Estate we discovered it was closed that day. However, we did stop for a bit at  the Biltmore Village, which at one time had been part of the estate.  I was drawn to stopping in the village because they had a large Chico’s and I felt compelled to visit it.

 




We also ate lunch in the Village at a cute  restaurant called the Corner Kitchen, where you ate on the second floor in a beautiful, cozy room.











We did some side tours outside of Asheville during the five days we stayed there. One was out in the country, Chimney Rock. The Rock seemed somewhat precariously balance up a column, but  we went up anyway, despite my infamous fear of heights.  At the top, which thankfully you could reach by an elevator,  that let you out in the gift  shop, of course. 


Then you followed a fence along a path about the side of
the site, made a slight jump from there onto the Rock proper. 






I have to admit the landscape  view from atop was pretty spectacular.








 We went from Chimney Rock  further down the country road to Lake Lure. A number of wonderful, but expensive summer home surround the lake, and of course you can take a pleasant guided  boat ride across and around the water.



From the boat you can visit, but not debark upon Snake Island. It is off limits because it lives up to its name and is infested with

a great number of snakes.


You can pause and go  ashore down from that island. This is the Lake Lure Inn  where the movie “Dirty Dancing” was filmed. We took shelter in it’s cove because a storm had come up suddenly  upon us halfway across the lake. A  lot of thunder and lighting to remind us we were on a metal frame craft.


It grew very dark and the rain fell in large heavy drops, stirring up the previously calm surface.






It passed quickly, although we got a  bit wet in the open-sided road. It was a fun trip, but everyone was joyful when we pulled into the main dock with all its ducks about the docks,

 






We did spend time touring the  city of Asheville, with its
curious street sculpture here and there.






One of our disappointments was dinner. I had made reservations for a  restaurant that received a good deal of publicity named the Flying Frog. We found it alright, but just couldn’t find anyone inside to greet us or seat us. We tried upstairs and down  without luck. We finally just walked out.


We spent a lot of our time at 48 Spruce Street, the
boarding house once owned by Mrs. Julia E. Wolfe, Thomas Wolfe’s mom, that had been known as “Old Kentucky Home”.



Here is the 6 foot 6 author with one of his  manuscripts carried into Max Perkins office in crates. Perkins, the editor at schribers, who also had Ernest Hemingway and F. Scott Fitzgerald as clients had to whittle the novel from 15,000 pages to book size. It was still a large book. Here goes Lois wandering around Thomas  Wolfe’s home.


On our trip home we stopped to eat in this restaurant in
downtown Lexington, Kentucky. It was known as the Parozza Southern Inn and featured a statue of a fat chef in the window.





Earlier in the year Laurel began dating  a boy  named Rance. This picture was taken on Laurel’s birthday and they went to El Tapatio in Claymont, not fr from where we live and along Philadelphia Pike. It is pretty authentic, having been founded by Mexicans some years before. IT was be a fun restaurant to visit with its live Mexican music.  


Laurel dated Rance for about a year. She always go s kick out of the fact his mother could not pronounce her name with the Ls at both end. His mother was Japanese and her Ls always sounded like Rs.




Noelle met Dr. Nancy Casta at the animal shelter. That year
(center with blue hair, Noelle is the tall girl in back).  At that time Dr. Nancy was the visiting vet at the shelter. She now owns her own Veterinarian Hospital, where Noelle works as a VetTech along with her other full time job at the Windcrest Vet Hospital. Nancy and Noelle have been very close friends for 13 years to date.

 


Noelle also got her second cat, then a kitten, that she named Isaac in 2008. Here is Isaac resting on my arm.


Saturday, September 4, 2021

CHAPTER 194: IMPRESSIONS OF MY LIFE: AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF A RECHERCHE POET CHICO YEARS: BEWARE OF MIRRORS 2007

 



CHAPTER 194. CHiCO YEARS: BEWARE OF MIRRORS  2007 



I might have a regular job going at Chico’s no, but I finding time to have a life and writing. I also was getting into genealogy and I did a book on the family. I simply called it “A History of Our Family”, but soon changed the title to “Stones of a Hundred Graves”.


I joined ancestry. com and  t put he Meredith Coat of Arms on the cover.  Noelle came home on July 7 and she enjoyed joining me in touring various graveyards looking for old family members.  


Noelle went out and got herself a cat from the Delaware
Humane named Guinness.




 




On July 18. Lois and I went to Atlantic City and stayed at the Bogata Casino, which is out on the marina We weren’t there to gamble, because I don’t like to throw my money away. We had five dollars we used on slots and lost it al


No we were there for the restaurants and shows. We ate at the Homestead Steak House, which was very tasty. The rooms are very nice for staying in as well. 


One has a nice view and you can watch these guysworking. You wonldn’t get me out there! You can see the window gives you a very panoramic view of the ocean front buildings.


Now Lois insisted I get some photos of the rather  expansive bathroom, with it’s large marble tub while we were there.



I got it in my mind that a picture of my sitting I that tub would make an interesting photo; after all nothing would really show except my hear because the tub sides were so high. I mean, but was a huge tub. Once filled with water you literally floated it was so large. On the right is the shot I finally got, but not before I compounded things. Here is how it went.


I undressed, set my camera on auto photo placing it on a  chair across the room where I pressed the auto shutter button. This gave me 10 seconds to scurry back into the tub and get posed.  Well, I did, and I sat there and sat there and I knew 10 seconds must have passed, but there was no class or click of shutter.  Hmmm, what could be wrong?  I must not have passed the burrow fully. So I sat a bit longer than decided to investigate. I climbed from the tub, walked over to the camera where I discovered I had engaged the worn button. Instead of the timed photo I had pressed the video button. Getting home I saw I had a little short of a naked me walking back  and forth from and to the tub.


Then I made matters worse. I decided as long as I my
camera was there, I would take photos oof the bathroom as my wife had requested. I began stepping about taking several snapshots. There only think sipping my  mind was the room was full of mirrors.



And this fact did occur to me until we got home and I loaded my photos onto the computer.

 

This is the first anyone has been shown any of the unintentional nudes. But after all these years and the piling up of age, I am beyond embarrassment or anything. Too many have seen my body in the flesh since then what are a few more views.  

 

My next visit anywhere was alone. On Labor Day of 2007, I
hiked up to the Arden Fair again. They hold it every Labor Day. 2007 was the 100th fair, so I bought myself a commemorative T-shirt ($10). I still have it but it has become rather faded.



My main stop, as usual, was the  food court. I am very much a fan of fair food, especially the French Fries.  This is what I mainly go for.


 


If you are wondering about the birthday banner, Henry
George (1839-1897) pictured right, was the economist whose theories Arden was founded upon. His most famous book was “Progress and Poverty” (1879). It sold millions of copies world wide.  



He had been born in Philadelphia. He married an Australian named Annie Corsina Fox. One of George’s belief was that owning property was what led to poverty. Arden was founded on that premise. You could build and own a home within the Villages, but not the land these sat upon. People lining in The Ardens did not pay property taxes to Delaware. Many artist and such lived within this structure. The folk singer Burl Ives once livd here.




On September 15 Lois and I departed for  a week’s trip to

Virginia.  We drove straight down to Natural Bridge where we had a room at the Natural Bridge Historic Hotel for the nights of 15 and 16.

 




That evening I took a hike upon the Monacan Tribe’s trail through the village circa 1700. I heard noice in the brush surrounding me and saw a flock (herd) of wild turkey’s scooting about.

 

We , of course, took in the show don along the creek that ran beneath the Natural Bridge.  It is an interesting presentation. 



Like I said, this is down below the main grounds of the park and they run a shuttle bus that will take you down to the creek trail and then bring you back up.  But Lois suggested we walk the steps instead.


There are a lot of steps, and they whine down the  hillside
seemingly forever It was not so bad going down them, but he insisted we walk back after the show and that was a different story. About halfway up she leaned against the rail along a bend in the  stairs and said she didn’t think she could make it further.  But she had to. I couldn’t carry her.



I could take an arm and help her long, with many pauses along the way.  Fortunately we made it, the last of the visitors to reach the top.  I was down there again the next morning for my early walk. I  did better on such trails than Lois. I was use to it even if I was 66 at the time.  I walked at least 5 miles every day at home, and I thought I would be doing so well into my nineties. Boy, did I come up short on that!


There is a lot to explore at Natural Bridge and it did take two days to do.






When we left Natural Bridge, we stopped in a Safari Park not far along. This was one o those nature park where you drive through all the wild animals. You can buy a book of food s you enter and feed the beasts as you go, which we did. 


There was a very persistent ostrich who knew you had food and stuck her head in the car. Lois was somewhat freighter by the bird and wanted me to drive away, but at the same time she was pulling the bucket of food across the seat toward me, and the bird was following. I did manage to convince her ti bring the bucket  ayr her window and we escaped,



I was more concerned with this follow’s interest.

 








We felt the people directly ahead of us were very foolish. They were basically inviting this bison into their minivan. Did they not see how big his animal was or how much havoc it could render?  They had two small children in that van with them. By the time they finally  managed to move on the Bison was halfway into the back seat. 


Heck, I didn’t even like the way these Bison were staring
at us.

 









There were many beautiful animals, large and small, to meet in that park. We thoroughly enjoyed the visit.





 






We toured Thomas Jefferson’s Moticello the next day. It is a nice home and grounds, but one mustn’t forget how Jefferson financed building. He mortgaged 150 Slaves to a Dutch Bank to get the funds.  We’re talking about taking out a large mortgage using people as your collateral.



We left Monticello and stopped in at  the  Michie Tavern.

The Tavern was founded by  Vorporal William Michie after he hurried him from Valley Forge upon his father’s death. The year was 1777.


You can get a tour through the tavern and grounds before or after dining. 


They serve hardy suntan meals served by people in traditional garb of the period.


 


We finished up the day touring Ash Lawn, the estate of President Jame Monroe, who issued the Monroe Doctrine, which was part  of State of the Union delivered in 1823. President Monroe  here warned “European nations that the United States would not tolerate further colonization or puppet monarchs.”


  It is still a part of the American policy. Although
somewhat expanded and abused in our time.







We stayed in Charlottesville after Ash Lawn. We were right up along the Amin street where people could meander without being in traffic. 


That is Lois wandering through the area full of bars and restaurants.




 


This was the hotel and I believe it was one of the Marriotts
, but I  can’t recall which one. I had a membership with that chair, so booked into Marriotts a lot. It had a nice room with an in-room  whirlpool bath.




It proved to be another stop where I forgot the presence of a rather large mirror behind the tub. 






We ate at this restaurnant, which had very good and very
varied items on the menu.


I believe I had a beet risotto, but whatever, it was red in color and quite flavorful. 





Back home in November, Noelle was invited too soon kind of dance. Only hitch was it required the ladies to wear a dress, and as much as she disliked it, she did get a dress and wear it.  I don’t believe Noelle had worn a dress since she was 4 for 5, and she hasn’t worn one since.  (I wonder if she wore those tennis shoes to the affair?) 




It was sometime during December that Darryl met Jackie and began going out with her.